My guide to relaxing😌
Updated: Sep 20, 2019
(I know this isin't really an original topic, heck you could even find this in other blogs!
If you're willing to read a bit I would like to share my tips for relaxing😊)
Just stop and think
Are you worrying about you're grades? Are you stressed because you're friend is really pushy or clingy lately? Did you forget to buy your neice a birthday present?
Those are some examples of the our daily struggles in our life. Well, except for that last one, that's my problem😖
Sometimes you just want to breakdown and just drift away from those problems. Of course you can't "physically" do that, But try to think for a moment. If you know you're really stressed, how about resting for awhile. We may find a solution to our problems if we clear our minds.
2 . Find you're comfy corner
So now you've stopped what you're doing and now planning to relax. Now, you need to find a place where you're hidden away from the ever judging eyes of society. Try staying in your room, maybe bring your pillows and banket hide in an attic or understairs closet if you can't relax there. If you're outside or in public, firstly good luck finding peace there! Secondly try to find a place where theres not much people. Maybe there's a hidden area in you're town's park. But I do highly recommend staying in your room and turning the air conditioning on.
3. Get comfy and jam out!
Finally, found a place to relax...
Roll yourself into a blanket burrito and listen to fantastic music! Listen to what ever you like, maybe listen to it without earphone! If someone enters or is looking is judging you, look them straight to the eye and continue what you're doing without a single care.😎
I often listen to really calm and "artsy" music.( I couldn't really describe it)
Here some youtube channels I'd recommend:
In love with a ghost
(Haha, I'm real weeb😧)
4. Do whatever the heck you want
After you've settled enough, do whatever that relaxes you! Maybe you could try drawing again! Or watch that series you wanted to watch for so long. You can try to catch up on that event on that game you play. Oooooooorrrrrrrrrrrr, you could take a nap and dream about something. ( maybe about someone~😉)
For me, sleeping is always the answer.
5. Snap back to reality
After relaxing and calming down. We have to get back to reality. I know it's pretty odd to see this as a tip. I mean, Existential truth in myyy relaxing tips! Get out!
All joking aside, we have to eventually need to plan what we'll do next. Try planning it one by one so that you won't stress yourself again.
For me, I start with the easy problems first before doing the complicated ones.
Aaaaannnnnnddd, that's all. After you've calmed down, try studying now, talk to your friend, maybe I should buy a present a now😅
Thats all of it. You don't have to really follow all of it. Just do whatever you do and remember to calm yourself down sometimes